Monday, June 17, 2013
Saturday, June 15, 2013
Let’s apply this same concept to people who are in our lives, but do not benefit us or continue to bring us sorrow based upon their actions or inaction. If this is a situation you are facing, it may be time for you to starve that person of your time, love, affection, finances, companionship or whatever it is about you that keeps them coming back for more.
When it is time for people to die in your life, there is no need to go crazy and be belligerent to make this happen. Simply, starve them of that one thing which you have given to them and they will eventually fade away. I know you are saying to yourself that it is easier said than done. You are right, but it is a principle that will work if you work at using it. Trust me I’ve tried it and it works.
Truthfully speaking this is not the easiest thing to do when you have an interest or connection with someone, but if you truly want to live a life that is connected to your potential, it is essential. Stop feeding into all of the negativity in your life and the people that only want to make withdrawals from your greatest investment, which is you. It is now time for you to feed your spirit with the things that you deserve. Do you know what you are worth?
Today I want you to take an appraisal of yourself. Take out a sheet of paper and create two columns. The left column should be titled I deserve and the second column should be titled I don’t deserve. Do the work and create your list. Once your list is completed keep it handy so that you will be readily reminded of what you should be inviting into your life and the things that you should be escorting out of your life.
As you are doing the work, it should be your goal to get what you deserve and not settle for less. It is time for you to feed your life with all the things that are RIGHT and in the spirit of Beyonce to the LEFT with all the things that should be STARVED! Go for it!
Friday, June 14, 2013
Thursday, June 06, 2013
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
The truth of the matter is that today is all you are capable of handling at once. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, so it is important for you to use your 1,440 minutes today wisely. Today’s joys and lows are meant to be handled in this moment only. You need to seize and capture the day as best as you can, because who knows what the next day shall bring. God will give you grace for today, but he will not give you grace for tomorrow until tomorrow arrives.
Often times we waste precious time worrying about things that may or may not happen. When you think about what may happen, this allows fear and worry to creep into the atmosphere. Sometimes the things you fear and worry about will manifest in your life today because of the intentional focus that you give it.
Today you should NOT allow yourself to dread tomorrow. Look at the positive side and know that you serve a God who is more than capable of bearing all of your burdens and cares. When you think about it, is he not the best God? He holds tomorrow in his hands and that is something to PRAISE him for RIGHT NOW. If you don’t remember anything else that I have said, remember that it is not wise of you to waste today’s grace by worrying about what tomorrow may bring. Handle Today and Leave Tomorrow in God’s Hands!!
Yours in Ministry,
Thursday, May 23, 2013
The true essence of who you are meant to be is in your existence. If God did not have a purpose for you here on earth, you would not be here. Since you are here living and breathing you have a mandate from the creator to be who he designed you to be. Why choose to fit the standard, when you were born to set the standard.
There is a KING or QUEEN within you, but you may never reign if you don’t begin to walk in your truth. As flawed as you are, you can still be used for God’s will. Truthfully, you have experienced everything that you have in life, so that you can make an imprint on the world that will change someone’s LIFE. Everything that you have been through has been according to where your journey will lead you.
Think of it this way. If you had not have gone through the identity issues, the alcoholism, the cheating, the lying, the fornication, the drugs, the loss of a loved one and other issues that we face as humans, how would you know that God can deliver you? If you had not gone through issues, you would not be able to relate to others that are facing life’s trials and tribulations? Your story is not always for your benefit, some of it is for the example that you will be to some young boy, young girl, woman or man that needs hope and you may be their only living example of Christ. You need to let your light shine and allow yourself to be used for your given purpose.
The greatest principle to remember is that in order to change the world, you must first understand that you have to make changes and accept your own world. This will provide freedom, joy and the liberation needed to make an impression on society that promotes change. The truth and power is in you and it is time for you to tap in to it. We need you to be you today and go out and change your world today by being who you truly are. In the words of popular artist Rihanna “Shine bright like a diamond!”
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Your fellow Change Agent,
Sunday, April 21, 2013
This past Sunday I confessed the battle I have been having, of operating in my own will and not the calling that God has specifically placed over my life. After confessing my battle, I immediately became whole in knowing that I will never be the same again. My confession allows God to put me on the potter’s wheel and turn me in his will and purpose for my life.
This is my confession, but I know that there are many of you who have also been fighting the WHEEL and WILL of GOD . He truly wants to put you on the potter’s wheel so that he can sculpt, mold and shape you for greatness. However, you must first submit to his will and his way. You have tried your agenda long enough and God wants you to know that you must give him access to do exceedingly and abundantly above all that you ask or think, according to the power that works in you (Eph 3:20). The power working in you is Jesus and he wants to turn new things in your life that you have yet to experience or think on.
Look back over your life and count the many times that God has turned it around for you. For some of you there was a time where you were a victim and he turned you into a victor. For another person he turned your tragedy into a triumph. For someone else he turned your setback into a comeback. Don’t you understand that God can turn your test into a testimony?
God is more than capable of taking what you consider to be your biggest battle and turn it into your biggest blessing. Jeremiah even recognized the power of God when he prayed “Ah, Sovereign Lord, you have made the heavens and the earth by your great power and outstretched arm. Nothing is too hard for you (Jer. 32:17).” It is time that you realize what God is capable of doing in your life. Submit yourself into the Potter’s Hands and allow him to have his will with your life. Will you allow God to mold and turn you for his purpose?
Peace and Blessings,
Saturday, April 20, 2013
The two year divorce drama between Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries is finally over. The end result is that
They must each pay their own attorneys fees
Kris does not get a dime
Kris have to drop his request for an annulment based on fraud
This is kim's second divorce!
Sunday, April 07, 2013
I have noticed that too often than not, we give flowers on special occasions or sadly when an individual has died. I want to challenge everyone to give your flowers today to those who deserve it in this present moment. Do not wait for a special day or the moment when an individual cannot enjoy their flowers because they are no longer able to smell them here on earth. Start being a blessing by showing those you care about that you appreciate them. Get into the habit of appreciating others daily and you will notice the changes it makes within your relationships.
Adorn your home, office and loved ones with the flowers of life. There is something special about blessing the living with the life of flowers. The smell that exudes from these living organisms cannot be duplicated and the feeling when received is 100% genuine. Right now, create your list of all those special people who deserve to receive their flowers in the present moment and make sure you don’t forget yourself, because you are most deserving as well.
Saturday, April 06, 2013
I’m never going to find a woman to love me, all these men out here are dogs, women are nothing but gold diggers, no one cares about me, I hate the way I look and I never have any money. I know you have heard people say one or more of the aforementioned. If you have not heard anyone saying it, it may be that you are the one saying these negative things out of your mouth. I’ve come to tell you to STOP IT and watch what you speak out of your mouth.
As our focal scripture states clearly, you will be satisfied by the positive things that come out of your mouth. You will never be complete or made whole if you continue to speak negatively. This is a contradiction and it has no place in the equation of a believer in FAITH. It is imperative that you realize that DEATH and LIFE are in the power of your tongue. You cannot move out of the rut you are in if you keep speaking negatively, you will never find the man or woman meant for you if you keep speaking contradictory words and you will never prosper if you claim to always be broke.
Today, I challenge you to only speak about your life as it relates to where you are going regardless of where you are in the present moment. If you don’t have the finances that you desire, instead of saying I am broke speak that you are only in between blessings because you are always blessed. If you are single and desire to have a mate in your life, speak that God is preparing me for the partner that I will have in my near future that is tailor made for me. If you are not where you desire to be career wise, speak that I am thankful for my current job and I know that God is molding me for purpose and I will never have to feel like I am working ever again in life. Speak over your life, speak over your children’s life, speak over your family’s life with words of faith and positivity. Your destiny lies in your tongue. What words will you release today that shall move you from good to great and directly into your purpose? Share with me and others by commenting on this blog. Remember you have the power and it is up to you to take control over your life by speaking life to all areas that or not as you wish. Go for it!
Peace and Love,
Friday, April 05, 2013
This is a great opportunity for you to pick up a new hobby and challenge yourself with a new goal. Local gyms are now featuring great deals on outside aerobics and fitness training. This is also a great time to go cycling, yoga training, running in the park, pottery, brisk walking or even working on that project that is due, but changing your setting to an area that is more scenic.
Whatever you choose to do in this new season, do something that will make you proud. Go out and do something that you have been talking about doing for years. Challenge yourself to conquer one of your fears or even knock an item off of your bucket list. However, make sure that if you do it, it will be something that you will even be impressed by if you were to share it with someone else.
I am excited for you today, because I know that you are finally deciding to remove fear from the equation and finally do something spectacular. I know that it will be that thing that will make you say, did I really do that? I am rooting for you today, but most importantly the YOU inside yourself is rooting for you. Make yourself proud by impressing your own self today!
Thursday, April 04, 2013
There comes a time in life when you are too concerned with what others think and desire, that it becomes domineering. It is also quite possible that you may become lost in the sauce because of this. Is this your story? Are you that person that people always want to tell you how to talk, how to dress, who to date, when to date, who to associate with and even what to think? Yes, I hear you. All of this sounds outlandish that someone allows themselves to be used by the puppet master as such. This happens often and you may be guilty of being led by the masses in your own life. If you are not guilty of being the puppet, then you might be the puppet master trying to control everything. (I’ll say OUCH to that from my past. I’m a complex simplicity. Stay or Go, it is up to you. Knowing your issue tolerance level and limits is key my friends.)
However, today I challenge you to pull back the strings on your own life and allow yourself to be used on purpose for God’s purpose. This simply means that there is something within you that needs to be exposed, but it cannot happen if you continue to allow someone else to control you completely. It is time for you to launch into the deep my little upside down cakes and apple turnovers. :) There is someone somewhere ready to receive what you have to offer. That someone is YOU!
In the words of Ieshia played by Regina King from one of my favorite movies Poetic Justice “This world is just one big place for us to go out and f**k up in it.” Although, vulgar in obscenity do not miss the lesson here which is live and let live. Move forward from your past by releasing anything and anyone that will not allow you to be you.
Yes, you will make mistakes in life, but your life is a process. How else will some of you hardheads learn? Some of you need some on the job training and that is what life provides each of us. We learn from our experiences and we grow from them daily. Today, I challenge you to lose the chains and cut the strings from your life, so that you can truly do you! Go out and create moments. Live, love, laugh, cry, try, experience, but most importantly Do YOU Boo! Someone is in need of an intervention and I think it is the man in the mirror. You don’t have to take my advice, but I am sure you will thank yourself for it later if you heed my suggestions. Love you much! Live and Do YOU Boo!
I’m doing me,